AA after page 164... Outstanding!Perfect example was the guy in the story "He Sold Himself Short".
Get a Sponsor, Have a Sponsor, Use a Sponsor. "True leadership, we find, depends upon able example..." (12 x 12, pg 124)
If he is not in contact, then why waste time?
I mean, if I offered someone a Drink and they didn't respond or show, I wasn't sitting at the bar bemoaning their loss, psychoanalyzing their intentions, background, childhood, etc, trying to out-think them into getting something they don't want... It just meant more for ME to drink.
To chase after someone may be to ruin a future opportunity. Pain is the great motivator and the Christmas partying has been the fast track to the bottom with so many of us. Wait for him to bounce, and find someone else until he does...