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by vicki_chinn
Mon Nov 02, 2009 11:55 am
Forum: Sponsorship
Topic: Male vs female sponsorship
Replies: 15
Views: 15710

Re: Male vs female sponsorship

Thanks for your reply. I thought the same as well. My husband will not give up these women but there is nothing I can do about that. I need to find meetings that are independant of his I think. He will not like it as he has control issues but I think that that is what I need for my recovery. I will ...
by vicki_chinn
Mon Nov 02, 2009 11:49 am
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: slipped
Replies: 11
Views: 1915

Re: slipped

OK, I'll tell him. I plan to go to an AA meeting tonight as well. I tried to call a couple of the numbers I had, but nobody was available. I lied to him at lunch time, but I will tell him the truth now. I just didn't want to add to his burden. Should I wait until he comes home or tell him when he ca...
by vicki_chinn
Mon Nov 02, 2009 9:27 am
Forum: Sponsorship
Topic: Male vs female sponsorship
Replies: 15
Views: 15710

Re: Male vs female sponsorship

I am a female with a male sponser until I find a female sponsor. My husband is an al-anon with a female sponsor who is the wife of my male sponsor. I have to say that I am not entirely comfortable with this situation. I would feel more comfortable with a female sponsor. I trust my husband with his s...
by vicki_chinn
Mon Nov 02, 2009 8:16 am
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: slipped
Replies: 11
Views: 1915

Re: slipped

So are you saying I need to tell my husband no matter what happens? I'm scared!
by vicki_chinn
Mon Nov 02, 2009 8:09 am
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: slipped
Replies: 11
Views: 1915

slipped

I've slipped and I am scared to tell my husband. I would like to talk to my sponser but his wife is my husbands al-anon sponsor. I want to talk to somebody but I live in a small town and I feel like there is no privacy. What should I do?