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by 1Peter5:10
Tue Nov 12, 2019 11:05 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: New Slogans
Replies: 27
Views: 206

Re: New Slogans

"Wax on. Wax off." It addresses a different set of issues, but it meant a lot to me and to my immediate circle of completely disfunctional soup kitchen and rotten tooth drunks. Hell, we used it as a greeting. :lol: :D :lol: :o :P :wink: :mrgreen: :shock: =biggrin =surprised =sad 8) :? :lol: :roll: ...
by 1Peter5:10
Sun Nov 10, 2019 9:47 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: New Slogans
Replies: 27
Views: 206

Re: New Slogans

"Wax on. Wax off."

It addresses a different set of issues,
but it meant a lot to me and to my immediate circle of completely disfunctional soup kitchen and rotten tooth drunks.

Hell, we used it as a greeting.
by 1Peter5:10
Wed Nov 06, 2019 7:17 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Unusual Closing Prayers
Replies: 16
Views: 5390

Re: Unusual Closing Prayers

In South Florida, and on Long Island, meetings are opened with the serenity prayer, (said while seated); the closing prayer is the choice of the chair or the featured speaker. Usually the Lord's prayer is chosen. It is said while standing. When it's my turn to choose, I stick with that but prior to ...
by 1Peter5:10
Tue Nov 05, 2019 11:21 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Character defect - Money management
Replies: 11
Views: 138

Re: Character defect - Money management

A little more on the philosophical stuff : "People who are careful with their money, generally don't become alcoholics." - Me If I had been thriftier, if I had a greater sense of financial responsibility to those around me, I would not have spent so much on alcohol. Maybe, I would not have become a...
by 1Peter5:10
Tue Nov 05, 2019 10:10 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Character defect - Money management
Replies: 11
Views: 138

Re: Character defect - Money management

Added to the above:
The best way to work on thrift problems is to work on them as practical matters. God gave us a brain.

That said:
A wise man once told me, if I don't work on the character defects that led to my drinking, there is a much greater chance I will return to my drinking.
by 1Peter5:10
Tue Nov 05, 2019 10:04 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Character defect - Money management
Replies: 11
Views: 138

Re: Character defect - Money management

Hi Jacob, I have (only) 3 years sober off a very low bottom. But I have a sponsor and my sponsor has a sponsor. All credit to them, (and page 86,) I seem to have made quite a bit of progress in 3 years. The *BEST* approach to solving the "thrift defect" is to adopt some sort of the *PRACTICAL ADVICE...
by 1Peter5:10
Wed Sep 18, 2019 7:35 pm
Forum: Guest Book
Topic: Returning to this Board
Replies: 3
Views: 204

Returning to this Board

Hi All, My name is Bob (but you can call me Peter if you like), and I am DEFINITELY an alcoholic. I was an active part of these boards a while back. I really needed them then as my work schedule precluded me from participating "in the center" of my local AA group. I am back because I miss the discus...
by 1Peter5:10
Wed Jan 16, 2019 9:16 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Trusting a Sponsor
Replies: 16
Views: 3237

Re: Trusting a Sponsor

Hello Rick, (and hello to my old friends. I'm baaack, -wink-). I come here at various times, especially when my work schedule gets crazy and limits my ability to attend meetings. Anyway, I was a low-bottom drunk. I have about 2-and-1/2 years sobriety. Trust issues, (some legitimate,) are common in e...
by 1Peter5:10
Mon Jul 02, 2018 10:53 pm
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: CBD oil, no THC
Replies: 15
Views: 2994

Re: CBD oil, no THC

I have never heard of an AA tell someone to stop taking prescribed Zoloft nor anything else (including mood altering drugs. antidepressants etc.) that has been prescribed by an actual doctor. When it gets shaky is when someone with a history of abusing alcohol or other mood altering substances, deci...
by 1Peter5:10
Mon Jul 02, 2018 9:38 pm
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: New to AA
Replies: 5
Views: 1151

Re: New to AA

Welcome Carly, it 'sounds' as though you are in the right place. I have heard from and about bartenders who sobered up without leaving their jobs. My sponsor, successfully sponsored several. Their road was not easy, and, without exception they say they relied heavily on "one day at a time." It is a ...
by 1Peter5:10
Sun Jun 17, 2018 12:22 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: ‘Bad’ Habits From Rehab?
Replies: 28
Views: 9069

Re: ‘Bad’ Habits From Rehab?

I am a very special kind of alcoholic. I am both an alcoholic AND stubborn. (wink) I had not held a real job for years and I was drinking 1.75 L of vodka (or more) each day. Whatever amount I drank, I was sure to leave a few inches of vodka left over at night because I would need it the next morning...
by 1Peter5:10
Sat Jun 16, 2018 3:04 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: ‘Bad’ Habits From Rehab?
Replies: 28
Views: 9069

Re: ‘Bad’ Habits From Rehab?

That said, it would be impossible to say that treatment works better than non treatment. With or without treatment, the relapse rate is greater than 50%. With or without treatment, to define what works, one would have to stay in touch with the alcoholic subject being studied and ask them after 1 yea...
by 1Peter5:10
Sat Jun 16, 2018 2:44 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: ‘Bad’ Habits From Rehab?
Replies: 28
Views: 9069

Re: ‘Bad’ Habits From Rehab?

In particular what Spirit Flower said in one sentence, seems to sum up the general feeling - “I think the basic weakness of all treatment is that you have to leave it; and you don't know how to take care of yourself.” Perhaps a combination of rehab and real world living, (maybe not in half way hous...
by 1Peter5:10
Fri Jun 15, 2018 2:27 pm
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: 17 days sober
Replies: 12
Views: 2628

Re: 17 days sober

. . . For those that have been sober for longer, when do the cravings begin to go away?? I know that I don’t really want to drink because I know it will lead to binge drinking, but the craving is still there! It’s awful... Look forward to reading your responses. Thank you! Welcome BayNative, welcom...
by 1Peter5:10
Wed Jun 13, 2018 7:32 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: ‘Bad’ Habits From Rehab?
Replies: 28
Views: 9069

Re: ‘Bad’ Habits From Rehab?

AA runs 0 rehab facilities, so the individual is not passing along any AA message. As such, any funding he can secure is an outside issue where AA is concerned. . . . It is absolutely correct that AA runs zero rehabs. Moreover AA does not endorse any particular rehab over another. That said, I prob...