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by Theo50
Fri Aug 07, 2020 1:52 pm
Forum: The 12 Traditions of AA
Topic: Meetings and Contract Tracing
Replies: 3
Views: 28

Re: Meetings and Contract Tracing

I have not been to a F2F meeting in over 4 months. I have been hanging out here and reading all the new posts when I have a chance. There was a lot of activity online here at the start of the pandemic, but it has slowed down quite a bit lately. Regarding the contact tracing at meetings, I think the ...
by Theo50
Thu Aug 06, 2020 6:14 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: 11 yrs ago today...
Replies: 7
Views: 109

Re: 11 yrs ago today...

Congratulations!
by Theo50
Thu Aug 06, 2020 6:05 pm
Forum: A.A. Birthdays!
Topic: 17 years
Replies: 6
Views: 117

Re: 17 years

Congratulations!
by Theo50
Thu Apr 30, 2020 7:40 am
Forum: The 12 Steps
Topic: Making amends
Replies: 35
Views: 3304

Re: Making amends

My question will be on the 2nd category of people. Are you in good relationship now? Are there is still friction and do you have to deal with them in your current day to day situations? I do not maintain relationships with mean people. I still encounter these type of people now and then but find it...
by Theo50
Sun Apr 26, 2020 10:08 am
Forum: The 12 Steps
Topic: Modem Step 4
Replies: 23
Views: 4139

Re: Modem Step 4

From my own experience, a resentment that I hang on to, even if I had no part in, is a problem as I am still harboring this resentment. The fact that it is eating away at my soul and taking away from my peace and serenity is the problem. Once the resentment is gone from my mind, it can no longer har...
by Theo50
Fri Apr 24, 2020 6:49 pm
Forum: Big Book Study
Topic: Big Book hard to follow
Replies: 20
Views: 3083

Re: Big Book hard to follow

I can certainly relate. I have only shared a few times in the 3 years I have been going to F2F meetings. Social anxiety has always plagued me and I have a really hard time telling a story. I am a very technical person and can tell someone how do do something by relaying logical step by step instruct...
by Theo50
Thu Apr 23, 2020 5:42 pm
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: Not at rock bottom ..but asking questions
Replies: 42
Views: 3059

Re: Not at rock bottom ..but asking questions

I don't agree with this statement, if you are enjoying anything in life, food, alcohol, sugar, exercise, gambling, sex, money, love, etc..., there is no reason to stop I believe that most people that come here are probably not really enjoying their drinking any more. I would agree that most people ...
by Theo50
Thu Apr 23, 2020 5:19 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: Unmanageability of step 1
Replies: 16
Views: 1580

Re: Unmanageability of step 1

Some excellent discussion here and why, although I do miss the F2F meetings, I find this online group a much better platform for discussions. I have had un-manageability in many areas of my life. Obsession with and consumption of alcohol became unmanageable at some point in my late 40s and I finally...
by Theo50
Thu Apr 23, 2020 3:40 pm
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: Not at rock bottom ..but asking questions
Replies: 42
Views: 3059

Re: Not at rock bottom ..but asking questions

Hello and welcome Lillibet, There are general survey questions and such, but it is really up to oneself to decide if alcohol has become a real problem in their life and they are willing to make a change. I enjoyed about 25 great years of a love affair with alcohol before I started hating the person ...
by Theo50
Wed Apr 22, 2020 2:51 pm
Forum: Sponsorship
Topic: How do I help my atheist sponsee?
Replies: 45
Views: 12201

Re: How do I help my atheist sponsee?

While I am not an atheist, I still struggle with the concept of God.
There are several threads regarding this that may help. Here is one:
http://www.e-aa.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=25158
by Theo50
Wed Apr 22, 2020 2:36 pm
Forum: For the Newcomer
Topic: Alcohol love/hate relationship
Replies: 9
Views: 907

Re: Alcohol love/hate relationship

Hello and welcome corlan, I enjoyed about 25 great years of a love affair with alcohol before I started hating the person I had become when drinking alcohol. After 3 years of sobriety, it is still difficult for my mind not to associate alcohol with the best times of my life. I have to keep the memor...
by Theo50
Wed Apr 22, 2020 2:26 pm
Forum: Guest Book
Topic: Guest
Replies: 4
Views: 625

Re: Guest

Welcome 228sam, the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous is available to read online in many places.
http://www.aa.org/bigbookonline
by Theo50
Wed Apr 22, 2020 2:11 pm
Forum: Discussions
Topic: God/Higher Power
Replies: 82
Views: 9194

Re: God/Higher Power

The author is dead. Anyone else that answers will be doing so with conjecture and/or opinion. The thoughts of other people can be valuable to an individual, but the bottom line always comes down to what the individual believes and thinks. My conjecture on the question is yes. What are your thoughts...
by Theo50
Wed Apr 22, 2020 10:10 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: God/Higher Power
Replies: 82
Views: 9194

Re: God/Higher Power

I will post my question in a simpler way.

According to the BB, are the following 3 terms synonymous?
God
Higher Power
Creator

This is where I get confused.
by Theo50
Wed Apr 22, 2020 5:31 am
Forum: Discussions
Topic: God/Higher Power
Replies: 82
Views: 9194

Re: God/Higher Power

We are all able to change the words in the BB to suit our interpretation, but at some point it will defeat the purpose of the intent of the author. If the words cannot be taken literally from the BB, I would think that it should be changed. That however is a topic of great divisiveness among AAs. By...